Over It!!

I was on the phone with one of my many sisters last night and somehow we got on the subject of how when you have kids you don't have time to keep in touch with old friends etc. Let me just put it out there that I know moms are way busy, but I think its shit that you use that as your excuse to not keep in touch with friends/family. No, I'm not bitter that I don't have kids, so get that thought out of your mind. I would hear this shitty excuse when I was single and all my friends were married and they suddenly didn't have time to talk to you anymore. Seriously, grow some balls and "break up" with that friend if you don't have anything in common or whatever the case may be. The fact is, if you have people in your life you supposedly care about, you should make the effort to keep it touch. Last I checked friendship, or any relationship, isn't suppose to be one sided. I am pretty much the only one out of all my friends that doesn't have kids yet. There's only one that I talk to on a regular basis...at least once a week. And, its not always me calling her. All my other friends, if I didn't call them I would never hear from them. When I call we have great conversation and everything is honky dory, but if I don't call them I don't hear from them. I've even went so far as "experimenting" to see how long it would take until one of them took the initiative and called me.....still waiting....been about 2 mos. I have a sister I haven't talked to since Christmas....still waiting for a call back. I have so much more to say on this subject, but why bother, it certainly won't change anything.